Friday 23 November 2012

Reader Appreciation Award

I am a loyal friend, I am also a loyal blogger, and maybe this is why I was recently applauded by both the wonderful Midlife Single Mum and Bibsey for encroaching upon their comment boxes with ebullient regularity. I need to add at this juncture that I'm neither a stalker nor will I go all single white female on you - does anyone remember that film? Anyway, it's good to feel appreciated. Now I just need to work on Little A. I actually think this is a lovely award, but have to admit to cheating a little; as usual with these things, you have to answer a specific set of questions, some of these I just couldn't think of interesting answers for, so I've included a selection of the award's questions and made up a few of my own. You can find the original questions here.

Where do you do most of your writing/blogging?
In a perfectly square room bedecked with crammed book shelves and a lone, distressed bureau by a window overlooking rolling hills, green pastures and a lazy river dividing the neighbouring valley. I WISH. No, I type - ahem - my magic from the kitchen table overlooking the mess of toys in the lounge and a street littered with fallen leaves and the odd page from the Metro floating on the wind. I can usually be found at this locale during nap times - when they actually happen - and on most weekday evenings when Younger Dad is buried in homework.

Lately, I've taken to writing atop a cushion on the living room floor. As you can see, it's next to the radiator so I get the added bonus of extra heat. I seem to use this location more and more when Little A has quiet time reading books on the sofa - the best alternative I could muster to the flagging nap times - and during her hourly allowance of CBeebies before tea time where she'll pull up a cushion next to me for those late afternoon mummy snuggles.    

What is your favourite time of the day and why?
In all honesty, and this is going to sound very selfish, any time of day I get five minutes to myself - so that's during Little A's nap/quiet times, and when she's clothed in sleep. I also really enjoy late afternoons with Little A; this is the time we pull out the paint, scissors and glue (just look at our recent scary creation with the googly eyes and ferocious teeth), and when we cuddle up in front of the TV.

Have you ever Googled yourself and been surprised at what you've found?
Well, if I search my actual name, Google lists my counselling website, and a variety of pages from this site. But more interestingly, according to, I am the only person with my name in the UK, so that's Internet proof I am totally unique, and why it would probably be a good idea to keep this blog anonymous, and write the novel I keep threatening to pen under a pseudonym.

One material possession  you could not live without?
My humble Dell laptop of course!

What is your dream car?
The Nissan Figaro is my Grease Lightning. It's neither fast nor practical for a toddler in tow BUT the Figaro is so aesthetically pleasing to my eyes. It's classy, rounded, quirky, for the lady wot eats cake about town, and I want one, and in olive green purlease. I don't think this car has ever been scrutinised on Top Gear, it's far too feminine!

Who would play me in a movie of my life?
Well this prompted me to ask the question - which brave actress would want to play me? Then I thought there might be a few '80's actresses dying to reinvent their career, so I thought Cher, no, not really, but Jodie Foster could pull off the roller coaster ride of my 20's and 30's with convincing aplomb. Fava beans and a nice Chianti anyone?  

Do you have any siblings?
I am the eldest of three. I have two brothers; one is a dancing doctor, the other is a rather talented fine artist and actor. But I was the one who loved books and music!

What is your Star Sign?
I am a Sagittarius - enthusiastic, honest, determined - make of that what you will. It just so happens I share the same sun and moon signs as Jane Austen, mmm. I'm not sure where I stand on astrology - my character completely changed after childbirth, and I must take this moment to thank depression and trauma, two happy symbiotic friends, for twisting my melon.  

Do you have any pets?
No, but as some of my readers know, I would love a pug! I have been keeper though to ladybirds, caterpillars, hamsters, fish, a west highland white terrier, a sliver grey tabby, and a very mardy ginger tom.

Any guilty pleasures?   
Okay, so I'm into the whole vampire thing - are you still reading? - and I'm a fan of True Blood. And I don't think I will ever tire of The Apprentice - it's so cathartic. Then there's chai latte, lemon drizzle, chocolate bread and butter pudding...

Now I want to take the time to thank those readers who've really stood by me over the last year, and some newish readers who've recently come along for the ride. Don't feel you need to respond to this, I know one reader in particular who is days away from welcoming her second child! (psst Mummy Plum)

Mummy Plum
Older Single Mum
Caught Writing
Lynsey The Mother Duck
Hello Wall
Multi Layer Mummy
3 Children and It
Three Years And Home
The Puffin Diaries
The Pretty Good Life
Bachelor Mum


  1. I agree about 5 mins to myself. And I see you are also a filofax fan. Thanks for the mention - I don't regard you as a stalker in any way. :)

    1. Couldn't live without my filofax - and hopefully getting a new one for my birthday! :o).

  2. Always a pleasure to sit down and read your blog over a nice cuppa. I agree, Nissan Figaro is a fab car. There's a certain estate agent in these parts that has started giving them to all their staff. Fancy a new career?! x

    1. Ah, thank you - love the Figaro - it's not Foxtons is it? X.

  3. Thanks for the mention OM, I comment because I like what you write, I fully expect to see you published one day along with MP. Love those cars too, didn't know they were Nissan's. I'm a big fan of the Apprentice too. Never had depression but I know trauma well, maybe one day we can have a glass of Chianti together (spookily what I am drinking tonight!) and untwist our melons :))

    1. Loved this comment - it would be very nice to share a bottle of Chianti with you one day and chew the fat. Very glad you like what I write. :o).

  4. You are welcome, always a pleasure lovey. I like that car too. x

  5. Ooh, thanks for the tag, it's a while since I've done anything like this! Will try to get around to it as soon as I can.

    1. My pleasure - Will look forward to your response!

  6. Haha! Your kitchen table setup mirrors mine! And that was fine - while it lasted. But now we're "between internet providers" so MacDonalds or anywhere else with Wifi and something to entertain my 2-y-o is the deal :-(
    Favorite time of day? When I can escape to social media for a breather!
    Still following you when I can...

    1. My kitchen table is such a mess! I would love my own writing cubby hole ... I'm so with you on escaping to social media. Me too i.e. following you!

  7. I think this award is just lovely, great to read a little more about you. I am very intrigued by the dancing doctor brother. Not 'The Dr Dance' by any chance? If I had time and was a stalker I'd go and check if you follow the one I'm thinking of on twitter. Won't reveal who on here seeing as you want to remain anon.

    Mich x

    1. No, not The Dr Dance :o). He's a G.P. who just so happens to have a diploma in contemporary dance as well! X.


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